Detachment-Should others or I do it?

Life is a continuous process of getting detached from people,some who come into our lives and some who leave us. Every incident has been a mental agony for us. Sometimes we work on getting detached from people in our spiritual journey and it is a tough gruelling experience for us.on certain occasions some people vanish from our lives for unknown reasons and we get immensely depressed and hurt about it. I often wonder why it should occur to me inspite of being so good to them. I travelled inward and meditated on these events in life. Ultimately realised that these people save us the agony and experience of working hard for getting detached from them. Sometimes I also get detached from people for no reason and am kind enough to save them from the painful process of they having to go through the process of working on it.DPlease do not ask me “Why?”This soul has no answer and if anyone has an answe please enlighten me🙏🙏🙏🙏